While the rest of the Housewives were screaming, sliding, and shamelessly flirting with shirtless 23-year-old butlers on a giant inflatable water toy, Liz quietly slipped away.
In that small, telling moment on the Newport mansion trip in RHORI Episode 7, we saw a rarely-glimpsed side of the Queen of Weed — and it was Ashley, of all people, who got to experience it.
The Age Gap Finally Shows
Liz has never hidden that she’s in a different life stage than most of the group. She’s a stepmom to three girls (one of whom is about to make her a grandmother), runs a cannabis empire with Gerry, and has already lived through massive transitions — including raising kids who aren’t biologically hers.
During the water slide fun, she admitted it can feel exhausting being surrounded by women young enough to be her daughters. Instead of forcing herself to keep up with the chaotic energy, she retreated inside. It was a quiet, very human moment of “I’m too old for this.”
That’s when Ashley — the perpetual Bachelor Nation outsider — showed her thoughtful side. She left the slide crew to check on Liz. The gesture clearly touched Liz, who opened up about how tiring it can sometimes be. Ashley’s kindness earned her the affectionate new nickname: “Lamby Liz.”
For a brief second, we saw the soft, vulnerable woman behind the “scary….boo” persona.
A Sharp Contrast to Liz’s Season So Far
This sweet moment lands differently when you look back at Liz’s journey this season:
- In the premiere, she proudly declared “Some people say I’m scary….boo” while drinking from goblets in her literal castle.
- In Episode 3, she screamed “F*ck off!” at Kelsey, kicked her out of the Studio 54 party, and dropped the shady “Maybe you have the ‘ongoing!’” line about Dino.
- In Episode 4, she was at the center of the rail bike tension when Alicia called her scary.
- Even during the masquerade dinner in Episode 6, she presented herself as a wolf (because that’s how people see her).
“Lamby Liz” feels like the first real crack in that tough exterior — and it was Ashley who got to see it.
Ashley’s Ongoing Outsider Journey
This moment is also significant for Ashley, who has struggled to find her place since Day 1. From the awkward beach day in Episode 4 where the ladies showed up glam while she felt like “a mom who maybe tried a bit today,” to crying at the masquerade dinner in Episode 6 because she felt she had “nothing to cry about,” Ashley has been quietly fighting to connect.
Her decision to check on Liz instead of staying with the fun group shows growth — and perhaps a genuine desire to bond with the older, more established women in the cast.
But We Already Know How This Ends
The sweetness of the “Lamby Liz” moment is unfortunately short-lived. The midseason trailer already teases tension between Liz and Ashley, suggesting this budding friendship won’t survive the rest of the season.
That makes this Newport scene even more poignant. For one afternoon, two women who often feel slightly out of step with the group — one because of her age and life stage, the other because she’s the Bachelor transplant — found a real moment of understanding.
In a season filled with affair videos, childhood trauma confessions, and screaming matches, sometimes the most memorable moments are the quiet ones.
Will “Lamby Liz” make a comeback later, or was this the peak of what could have been a beautiful cross-generational friendship?
Only time (and the rest of Season 1) will tell.